Strength, I believe, depends on each situation. Strength can come from holding back. Strength can be from pushing on. Strength can come in small gestures or in big decisions. It can be a confident yell or a shaking murmur but nonetheless both demonstrate strength.
I hope that in the years to come I grow in strength. I can only hope. It is not something I can force but when the load comes I hope that I can bear it. I hope the same for all of you.